EP 156

Part 2: I’m Learning to “Let Me”

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Inside This Episode

In this episode of The Above Board Podcast, we delve into the ‘Let Them Theory’ by Mel Robbins, exploring the often overlooked but powerful concept of ‘Let Me.’ Learn how to stop managing others’ reactions and focus on prioritizing your own happiness, health, and peace. John shares personal experiences and tips for implementing this mindset shift in various aspects of life, including leadership, family, and career. Tune in for practical advice on setting boundaries, handling overcommitment, and making self-care a priority. Don’t miss this enlightening conversation!

Three Biggest Insights

  • Setting Boundaries and Reclaiming Peace
  • The Link Between People-Pleasing and Burnout
  • Leadership Through Self-Trust

Key Takeaways

  • Let yourself say no: You don’t need to justify every boundary—“no” can be a full sentence.
  • Stop borrowing time from what matters: Overcommitting often takes away from your sleep, health, or family—protect those first.
  • Lead without needing applause: Not everyone will agree with your choices, and that’s okay—trust yourself to make the right calls.
  • Rest without guilt: Taking time off isn’t selfish—it’s necessary for long-term clarity and well-being.
  • Awareness is the first step: You might not always get it right, but noticing where you’re giving too much of yourself is the start of real change.